Finally! Go gray and feel good about it!
If you want to go gray but can't get past thinking...
"It will make me look older... It will make me look ugly... People will talk about me... My family will hate it..."
You're not alone! Going gray is more complicated than you think—and we can help.
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The 3 real hang-ups that make the idea of going gray feel impossible.
The reality is, there are 3 common hang-ups that keep you from going gray. Once we help you identify them and give you the tools to overcome them, you’ll be able to start the journey on your terms.
“Why does going gray feel so scary?”
- You've unknowingly spent your entire life being manipulated by messaging that says aging is bad, getting old is bad—and your gray hair is a sign you're not worthwhile anymore.
- People around you have been manipulated too—and they might not be supportive of your decision to go gray.
- You don't have enough examples or role models with gray hair to draw inspiration from.
“What if I fail? What if I can’t do it? What if I don’t LIKE it?”
- There's no way to fail this experience. Seriously.
- Even if you decide to go gray and then find yourself back in the salon or browsing the hair color aisle at Target, that's not failure.
- Going gray is an intensely personal journey. You get to navigate it in your own way and on your own time.
Does going gray mean I have to go cold turkey? Can’t I just dye my hair gray and be done?
- Good news: there's literally no wrong way to go through this process.
- Go cold turkey, cut it all off—it's up to you!
- But, dyeing your full head of hair gray to match your roots is really difficult to achieve. Plus it's expensive and requires a lot of maintenance.
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Imagine how amazing it would feel if…
You could embark on a process that would not only allow you to embrace a natural change, but would also help you love and embrace yourself in a whole new way.
You had a supportive, uplifting community to help encourage and guide you through the most frustrating parts of the going gray journey.
You could say goodbye to the inconvenience, expense and potential environmental cost of coloring your hair every few weeks.
You knew exactly what to do to help keep your hair looking gorgeous and healthy.
You could look in the mirror and feel strong, confident, beautiful and totally in love with your gorgeous gray hair.
Here's the good news...
It IS possible to go gray on your terms and there’s an easy process to manage it.
How do I know? In 2017, when I decided to go gray, I documented the entire process online. That series of blog posts exploded in popularity—we’re talking around 250,000+ readers per month—and has grown into a Facebook community that’s tens of thousands women strong.
I’m Lisa Fennessy,
Founder and CEO of The New Knew, a blog about choosing healthy beauty and valuing a sustainable lifestyle in order to make a positive impact on our health and the health of the planet.
Despite my commitment to a cleaner lifestyle, I swore I’d never stop coloring my hair. Never. Never.
Then, one day, I spotted this beautiful woman in a restaurant, and she kind of blew my world wide open. This woman struck me because her face looked so young, but her hair looked so…gray. And she was STUNNING.
Before I knew what came over me, I was walking over to her!
“Hi,” I said. “My name is Lisa. Your hair is gorgeous! How did you do it? Was it hard? Did you have to cut your hair? How about hats? What did your friends say? How old are you?!”
45, she said. Growing out her gray was hard at first, but then it got easier. Her kids didn’t like it initially, but they became indifferent soon enough. It had been 3 years and was the best thing she had ever done.
After that, my thoughts shifted from “I wonder…” and “What if…” to “WHEN?!” The longer I sat with those thoughts, the louder they got. In 2017, I started blogging about going gray, and the response was overwhelming. That’s when I realized that this is a topic that we want and NEED to talk about.
Since then, so many people have approached me and said that my story gave them the courage to go gray...
CYNTHIA
I can't thank you enough for what you are doing for us women and I'm so glad I found you online.
ERIN
I've been thinking about "letting my hair go" since I hit 50 (in the middle of Covid) but didn't have the courage. My inspiration was you! I read the inspirational stories daily to keep me going.
JENNIFER
Thank you for the inspiration and the support!!
CAROLINE
Your site and facebook group are so inspirational!! It's the boost I need. In any case, having all the women come together because of you is AMAZING!! You are doing something truly wonderful!!
LYNN
I look forward to your future emails so I can find good clean products to use as I am always discovering so many I never heard of. I appreciate all you do to help people.
PAULINA
I want to thank you because, with all your posts, you have supported, encouraged and ensured me in my decision. When I read your experience and noticed the same comments around me, I stopped feeling alone and with more ideas to answer them!
Are you ready to finally embrace your natural gray hair?
I went from hating my hair to LOVING my hair, and I feel more confident now than I’ve ever felt in my life.
Now, in addition to continuing to share my journey on The New Knew, I host a free Facebook group dedicated to going gray. Based on my journey and the journeys of so many women I know, support from peers is absolutely pivotal.
If you’ve been thinking about going gray, you need a support system. You need to be able to see yourself in other women. You need affirmation that you CAN do this.
That’s why I’ve created a space for this journey where you can receive the support, guided experience and expert input that just aren’t available in free groups. Think of it as your very own personal mentor for going gray!
introducing
Going Gray on Your Terms
Go gray and feel GOOD about it.
Release societal pressure and start a journey toward loving your hair more than you ever thought possible.
You don’t have to keep scheduling your life around those regular root touch-ups.
You don’t have to live in fear of whether your spouse, boss, friends, kids, or even strangers on the street will disapprove of your decision to go gray.
You don’t have to waste valuable mental and emotional energy worrying that gray hair is going to make you look old.
You don’t have to look at other women who are going gray—and looking downright amazing—while thinking, “I could never look as good as she looks with gray hair.”
You can absolutely go gray, look amazing, feel even better and do it all on your terms.
Going gray is so much more than a physical change—it’s a journey that leads to inner and outer transformation.
Nothing like this has ever existed before—we checked.
HERE'S WHAT YOU GET WHEN YOU JOIN:
Real-life experience from Lisa Fennessy, going gray hair writer + founder of The New Knew
Module OneWhy is this so hard?
Want to feel more confident in your going gray journey? This module supports and deepens your understanding of the cultural pushback you might get around going gray. Plus, you’ll have the opportunity to meet and connect with a community of women who are on your exact same journey—you’re never alone!
YOU’LL GET:
- The History of Hair Color Infographic
- 10 Ways to Respond to Rude Comments About Gray Hair
- What Do I REALLY Think of Me? Reflection Journal
- Kick Your Limiting Beliefs to the Curb Reflection Journal
- Community Check-in
Module TwoI Want to Go Gray, But I'm Scared
In this phase, we’ll talk about why this journey can feel really scary. You’ll learn to move beyond that fear and embrace you. Plus you’ll gain understanding about why support is so important (and how to get it).
YOU’LL GET:
- Going Gray Success Stories
- Strengthen Your Support System Reflection JournalKnow Your WHY and Get Support Reflection Journal
- Know Your WHY and Get Support Reflection Journal
Module ThreeI Feel Insecure in Public
Feel insecure about your looks or your decision to go gray? It’s okay if you feel uncomfortable—we all do! By the time you’ve completed Module 3, you’ll be prepared with a few strategies—both hair-oriented and feelings-oriented—to help keep you moving forward.
YOU’LL GET:
Module FourThis is HARD. What Do I Do When I Want to Quit?
By the time you’ve completed Module 4, you’ll be equipped to manage the feelings of wanting to quit, and you’ll have a better understanding of how you can best care for your hair and scalp.
YOU’LL GET:
- Do You REALLY Want to Quit? Reflection Journal
- DIY Hair Mask for Shine + Softness
- If This, Then That Solutions to All Your Gray Hair Problems Tool
- How to Celebrate Your Milestones
Module FiveHow Do I Take Care of My Changing Hair Texture?
Module 5 will show you everything you need to know when it comes to keeping your gray hair healthy, bright and free from damage. You’ll also know exactly where to look (and what to look for) when it comes to purple shampoo, heat protectants and styling tools.
YOU’LL GET:
YOU’LL GET:
- Snaps for Going Gray!
- Look How Far You've Come Gray Hair Reflection Journal
- There's a Coach for That?! Guide
- How to Celebrate Your Milestones
Ready for a recap?
Here's everything you get with Going Gray on Your Terms:
👉 6+ modules to support you in your journey to going gray
👉 45+ valuable tools, exercises, videos, guides, and checklists
👉 45+ valuable tools, exercises, videos, guides, and checklists
Ready to go gray and feel GOOD about it?
CHOOSE FROM ONE OF THREE OPTIONS:
Going Gray on Your Terms
GRAY EXPERIENCE
(Journey Only)
You’ll receive:
- 6+ modules to help you navigate the main phases of going gray
- 45+ tools, videos, and exercises
- Lisa and our experts’ guidance along the way
$97
Going Gray on Your Terms
SILVER EXPERIENCE
(Journey + Community Support)
You’ll receive:
- 6+ modules to help you navigate the main phases of going gray
- 45+ tools, videos, and exercises
- Lisa and our experts’ guidance along the way
- Access to the Going Gray on Your Terms private community for 6 months
- PLUS group Q&A Office Hours calls with Lisa
$247
Going Gray on Your Terms
PLATINUM EXPERIENCE
(The Whole Shebang)
You’ll receive:
$497
LIMITED TIME ONLY!
$247
Your experience with Going Gray on Your Terms starts immediately once you enroll. When you click the “Join Now” button below, you’ll be taken to our secure checkout.
When you register, you’ll receive an email confirming your registration. Your email will also contain instructions on how to access your learning portal via Mighty Networks. From there, you’ll have immediate access to all of the videos, journal exercises, resources, and more!
If you have any questions along the way, our team is here to help you get access to the content and make sure you get the most out of the program.
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Join now and get the PLATINUM EXPERIENCE at the SILVER price! That includes…
- Exclusive access to weekly pep talk touch points from Lisa and team.
- FREE access to the internal community—FOREVER!
- Group Q&A Office Hours calls with Lisa
- Fully designed and printed, spiral-bound Going Gray on Your Terms Journal, printed and shipped to you when you sign up for the course (on top of the digital version you’ll receive as soon as you log in!).
- Extra Journal pages for you to free write or expand on your Going Gray Reflections.
- A FREE habit tracker to help support any new habits you’re taking away from this course.
- 3 exclusive, original guided meditations from a mindset coach that will deepen your connection to yourself and support your goals.
- 12 beautifully designed smartphone and desktop wallpaper affirmations (24 total!), one for each month of your grow out, to help motivate you on your journey.
Frequently Asked Questions
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A: You'll have immediate access to all course content, including the digital workbook, as soon as you join the program. Want to revisit a Module or even take a break from the process and start again? Not to worry—you'll have lifetime access to the materials. For our Top Tier members, you'll receive immediate access to the digital workbook, and a full-color, spiral-bound workbook delivered to you
A: Every individual will go at their own pace, but you can expect to set aside as little as 10 minutes a day to experience the content for each Module.
A: If you selected either of the upgraded options that includes Q&A calls, please email gray@thenewknew.com with your questions.
A: The beauty of this program is that it's however long or short you need it to be! All 6+ Modules together will take you from your first few weeks through beyond 12 months. Whether you want to stay on the path for 3 months, 6 months, 12 months or even 24 months, that's totally up to you (you'll have lifetime access to the materials!). Modules are laid out by timeline so you can follow this course straight through, or each module focuses on a going gray pain point so you can loop back and revisit the Module you need help with as specific pain points arise.
A: Nope, it absolutely doesn't! There's literally no way to fail at this. No matter how far you make it into the program, chances are you're going to gain confidence and learn something new about yourself. And if, a few months down the road, you want to pick back up with the program, you're welcome to do so! If you're not completely satisfied with your purchase please reach out to gray@thenewknew.com within 3 days and we'll do everything we can to support you.
A: It's not cheating and you can definitely still join! There's no wrong way to go gray—there's only the way that works for you. Whether you want to go cold turkey on the hair dye, dye all of your hair gray, have your gray blended or even shave your head, you're welcome here and we can help.
Going Gray on Your Terms—the support system you need.
If you’ve been struggling with growing out your gray hair, this is the lifeline you’ve been looking for.
Are you ready to get started?
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